How long have you been doing what you do, and how did you become a Certified Spiritual Mindset Coach?
To answer this question, it’s probably best that I share with you a defining moment, and a resulting “Compelling Story”, that brought me to where I am today – coaching people like you on exactly how to heal your soul and go from pain to power! That defining moment in my life happened in the Fall of 2017, I experienced the greatest spiritual awakening of my life.
I’ve accomplished a lot in my life, but I’ve also carried a lot of trauma and pain that was deeply rooted all the way from my childhood. My mother had me when she was 17 years old. My father was a great father (from what I’ve always been told) but I never got to know him. He was murdered when I was 2 years old. My mother was a young teen girl with a fatherless child, trying to find her way through broken generational curses of trauma and pain. Talk about a lot of resentment and abandonment pain....I harbored a lot of it at a very young age.
I’ve accomplished a lot in my life, but I’ve also carried a lot of trauma and pain that was deeply rooted all the way from my childhood. My mother had me when she was 17 years old. My father was a great father (from what I’ve always been told) but I never got to know him. He was murdered when I was 2 years old. My mother was a young teen girl with a fatherless child, trying to find her way through broken generational curses of trauma and pain. Talk about a lot of resentment and abandonment pain....I harbored a lot of it at a very young age.
I had some really dark and fucked up days that I didn’t allow anyone else in on. I was attracted to women and it terrified me because I didn’t feel that was right by “God” and for so many days I walked around scared shitless that something would happen to me because of my religious upbringing. The more I fought the attraction for women and tried to cover up the feelings, the stronger it got. I remember trying to hide it my last couple of years of high school. I was miserable. I was one of the star basketball players at my high school and pretty popular (this was my outlet from shame). I felt like I was being one way at school, but lied about who I was when I was around my family. The inner battle was mad real for me at this time!
You can read more of my compelling story in my new book, Coach Dee's Playbook: Five Ways to Become a Champion of Self-Love as it will change your life in unimaginable ways.
Loving myself was the best damn decision I’ve made for myself. I went through the storm of growth and I came out empowered and ready to live! I turned insecurities into certainties, abandonment into wholeness and limited old beliefs into positive affirmations. Here I am today, living a positively fulfilled life I am creating simply because I made a choice to let go of what no longer served me and re-write my story! Oh, and what a powerfully resilient story it is...
I cleaned up my past and started teaching other women (and some men), how they can do the same, especially those in the LGBTQ community. I’ve watched their healing unfold to pure happiness! I have since made a commitment to dedicate the rest of my professional and personal life to helping others who are ready to heal past pain/trauma, be who they authentically are and truly LOVE THEMSELVES. Working with me, you are guaranteed to clear negative blockages, step into your true self and be all you desire to be all while living your best life. You will connect with inner peace in unimaginable ways!
Since then, I’ve worked with many private clients, spoken in front of countless groups: I live my dream of having the freedom I desire working for myself, making great money doing what I love, traveling the world, giving back to the community, inspiring others to self love and feeling an inner peace I will never let go of. This in turn, has elevated all relationships around me including my marriage and more positive connections with family and friends. I have a soul family now, and that shit right there is LOVE!
This led me to creating the Dee'Tox Signature System™ , a series of important inner and outer steps that will guide you towards healing which will then lead you towards happiness and inner peace! When you have happiness and inner peace, you look at life with certainty! You know that anything you ever wanted to do is yours and you’ll do that and you’ll love your life more and more each day!
I cleaned up my past and started teaching other women (and some men), how they can do the same, especially those in the LGBTQ community. I’ve watched their healing unfold to pure happiness! I have since made a commitment to dedicate the rest of my professional and personal life to helping others who are ready to heal past pain/trauma, be who they authentically are and truly LOVE THEMSELVES. Working with me, you are guaranteed to clear negative blockages, step into your true self and be all you desire to be all while living your best life. You will connect with inner peace in unimaginable ways!
Since then, I’ve worked with many private clients, spoken in front of countless groups: I live my dream of having the freedom I desire working for myself, making great money doing what I love, traveling the world, giving back to the community, inspiring others to self love and feeling an inner peace I will never let go of. This in turn, has elevated all relationships around me including my marriage and more positive connections with family and friends. I have a soul family now, and that shit right there is LOVE!
This led me to creating the Dee'Tox Signature System™ , a series of important inner and outer steps that will guide you towards healing which will then lead you towards happiness and inner peace! When you have happiness and inner peace, you look at life with certainty! You know that anything you ever wanted to do is yours and you’ll do that and you’ll love your life more and more each day!
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS...
Who are your clients?
I work with people just like you who are ready to do the inner work and positively transform their lives!
My ideal clients typically:
My ideal clients typically:
- Are ready to take their lives to the next level through action
- Are committed to doing the inner work towards healing and self-discovery
- Are ready to clear negative blockages and tap into a more positive, happy life
- Value high integrity and respect through accountability
- Are ready to turn pain into peace and soar to new levels (like Eagles)
- Know their lives have purpose and are ready to tap into their higher self
What Makes You Different from Other Life Coaches?
I understand being at the place where you are now. I was anxiously ready to turn pain into peace. I've experienced the unhappy side before healing. Through my life's experiences and spiritual aspects, I can help you transform from the inside without the limited beliefs, the conditional love or judgment. I am organic and I will help you shift your energy and mindset to a more positive outlook with so much clarity. I'll be like a soul friend you never knew you had, but always wanted! Most importantly, I'll help you love yourself and meet someone that's been excited to meet you.....You!
I care about you healing into happiness. Things will get real and it will not always be pretty, but it will be worth it. I'll be honest with you and help you clear old paths and blockages which will ultimately lead to success. My healthy dose of humor and inspiration will make the ride more enjoyable and memorable. Peace and happiness will be the new thing in your life. And, most importantly I am AUTHENTIC and REAL AF!
I care about you healing into happiness. Things will get real and it will not always be pretty, but it will be worth it. I'll be honest with you and help you clear old paths and blockages which will ultimately lead to success. My healthy dose of humor and inspiration will make the ride more enjoyable and memorable. Peace and happiness will be the new thing in your life. And, most importantly I am AUTHENTIC and REAL AF!
What type of personality do you work best with and what is expected of me?
The Dee'Tox Signature System™, workshops, products, and programs were created for people just like you who are absolutely excited and dead serious about living a positively fulfilled life! We will change those negative thoughts and create a way of thinking that will enhance every area of your life. This was designed to help you heal into a happy, fulfilled life. It's time you feel pure happiness!
Being a person that is committed, ethical, and on a spiritual journey of self-discovery, I tend to work best with other people that are on a spiritual journey of self-discovery, commitment, and ethical alignment. This includes those that are committed to their success no matter what and are super-ready to get going! My clients usually tell me, "Just tell me what to do! And I'll do it!" As long as you are ready to take serious and consistent action towards doing the inner work, you will see your life shift positively! NO excuses anymore! I'll offer you a new way of thinking and full support as you achieve this very exciting goal of pure happiness.
Being a person that is committed, ethical, and on a spiritual journey of self-discovery, I tend to work best with other people that are on a spiritual journey of self-discovery, commitment, and ethical alignment. This includes those that are committed to their success no matter what and are super-ready to get going! My clients usually tell me, "Just tell me what to do! And I'll do it!" As long as you are ready to take serious and consistent action towards doing the inner work, you will see your life shift positively! NO excuses anymore! I'll offer you a new way of thinking and full support as you achieve this very exciting goal of pure happiness.
For what type of professionals are your programs NOT going to work for?
Please know I’m very selective in who I work with and I cherry-pick my clients, choosing to (gently) turn away people who aren’t suited for my programs and won’t get the results for which they would have signed up for. That wouldn't be fair.
The Dee'Tox Signature System™ programs are NOT for those who have no money coming in and are absolutely, financially desperate, at least not right away. It’s been my experience that people in financial crisis do not trust the recommendations I give them and do not do the inner work effectively (probably because they spend so much time worrying about where they are going to get next month’s rent check or mortgage payment.) If you fall within this category, it’s absolutely OK. We’ve all been in times of financial crisis at one point or another. Do yourself (3) favors:
1. Start focusing on your desires and how you can attract what you want from your beliefs. Remember, positive affirmations spoken come to life when you FEEL GOOD!
2. Follow me on Social media for Daily Inspiration and Support! (Social Media)
The free positive mindset support will get you started towards your healing until you’re ready to work with me one-on-one.
3. Make a point to read my Journals! They will offer tips and guidance towards touchy, relatable topics followed up with encouragement!
Doing these three things will really help you get primed for our work. When you’re ready, call me and we’ll get you started. (I’m in no rush and will be here when you need me.) There are other types of personalities I absolutely won't work with. The whiner, the chronic skeptic, or individuals who consistently make excuses for not doing the work needed to see the results desired. If you are one of these people, I gently and respectfully ask that you not reach out until you are ready. Alignment is key and I want us both to feel connected. That's fair for all of us right?! I'm after success stories and committing to your growth means you are READY!!
The Dee'Tox Signature System™ programs are NOT for those who have no money coming in and are absolutely, financially desperate, at least not right away. It’s been my experience that people in financial crisis do not trust the recommendations I give them and do not do the inner work effectively (probably because they spend so much time worrying about where they are going to get next month’s rent check or mortgage payment.) If you fall within this category, it’s absolutely OK. We’ve all been in times of financial crisis at one point or another. Do yourself (3) favors:
1. Start focusing on your desires and how you can attract what you want from your beliefs. Remember, positive affirmations spoken come to life when you FEEL GOOD!
2. Follow me on Social media for Daily Inspiration and Support! (Social Media)
The free positive mindset support will get you started towards your healing until you’re ready to work with me one-on-one.
3. Make a point to read my Journals! They will offer tips and guidance towards touchy, relatable topics followed up with encouragement!
Doing these three things will really help you get primed for our work. When you’re ready, call me and we’ll get you started. (I’m in no rush and will be here when you need me.) There are other types of personalities I absolutely won't work with. The whiner, the chronic skeptic, or individuals who consistently make excuses for not doing the work needed to see the results desired. If you are one of these people, I gently and respectfully ask that you not reach out until you are ready. Alignment is key and I want us both to feel connected. That's fair for all of us right?! I'm after success stories and committing to your growth means you are READY!!
