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To answer this question, it’s probably best that I share with you a defining moment, and a resulting “Compelling Story”, that brought me to where I am today – coaching people like you on exactly how to heal your soul and go from pain to power! That defining moment in my life happened in the Fall of 2017, I experienced the greatest spiritual awakening of my life.

​​I’ve accomplished a lot in my life, but I’ve also carried a lot of trauma and pain that was deeply rooted all the way from my childhood. My mother had me when she was 17 years old. My father was a great father (from what I’ve always been told) but I never got to know him. He was murdered when I was 2 years old. My mother was a young teen girl with a fatherless child, trying to find her way through broken generational curses of trauma and pain. Talk about a lot of resentment and abandonment pain....I harbored a lot of it at a very young age.

I had some really dark and fucked up days that I didn’t allow anyone else in on. I was attracted to women and it terrified me because I didn’t feel that was right by “God” and for so many days I walked around scared shitless that something would happen to me because of my religious upbringing. The more I fought the attraction for women and tried to cover up the feelings, the stronger it got. I remember trying to hide it my last couple of years of high school. I was miserable. I was one of the star basketball players at my high school and pretty popular (this was my outlet from shame). I felt like I was being one way at school, but lied about who I was when I was around my family. The inner battle was mad real for me at this time!

You can read more of my compelling story in my book, Coach Dee's Playbook: Five Ways to Become a Champion of Self-Love as it will change your life in unimaginable ways. 

Loving myself was the best damn decision I’ve made for myself. I went through the storm of growth and I came out empowered and ready to live! I turned insecurities into certainties, abandonment into wholeness, and limited old beliefs into positive affirmations.  Here I am today, living a positively fulfilled life I am creating simply because I made a choice to let go of what no longer served me and re-write my story! Oh, and what a powerfully resilient story it is...​Healing that shit is necessary if you desire authenticity and soul liberation. 

My healing opened up my purpose. I get to mentor and coach masterminds and private clients, speak and share my story with others all while having the freedom I desire working for myself, making great money doing what I love, traveling the world, giving back to the community, inspiring others to self-love and feeling an inner peace I will never let go of.  My healing and inspiration has been fulfilling. This, in turn, has elevated all relationships around me including my marriage and more positive connections with family and friends. I have a soul family now, and that shit right there is LOVE! Community is everything to me. I love the safe space, I've created for others to heal that shit too all while feeling supported.

My coaching techniques and intentions are all from a root of love. The more we love ourselves, the more love we can genuinely and unconditionally give to others. The deeper you dive, the more your soul comes alive. What a vibe! 

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